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military divorce
Last post 07-02-2009 11:47 PM by
JAMES. 0 replies.
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07-02-2009 11:47 PM
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JAMES
  - Joined on 07-02-2009
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My ex-wife and I have been divorced for over 6 years and we have 2 children together. During that time we shared custody 50/50 and I paid full childcare; we never had a child support order established. Things have always been rocky between us because we have our own opinons about what's best for our children and recently things have gotten out of hand. It seems everytime her life is going well things between us are fine but as soon as her life is falling apart she wants to take it out on me. I remarried a few years ago and me ex-wife immediately began starting trouble with my wife, accusing her of treating my kids badly. Now that her an her new babies daddy have split up and she is on her own she decided to start messing with me again; here's how:
1) She found out I was leaving for a deployment for 3 months so she took me to child support court. They are making me pay an amount equal to her having 100% custody because I won't be around even though when I return we'll go back to 50/50, is this right? The amount I'm paying is ridiculous; I have a mortgage and still need to maintian a roof over my kids head when I return, shouldn't the courts consider this. My support will decrease when I get back but what about my bills while I'm away?
2) She is trying to get more custody by going after my wife saying she is abusing them and treating them badly. She called CPS but they did nothing so she went to the police and to them I spanked my children, they investigated and did nothing.
3) I believe her whole motive is money since her other childs father keeps increasing his time share with thier child everytime they go to court which reduces her support.
She is trying to change the agreement we have already which is: 50/50, If she or I move the kids will go back and forth on a yearly basis.
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