You Always Have Somebody…
I like to remind people, no matter what, you always have somebody, divorce is rough and of course there are a lot of women going through a lot more then divorce, they may be dealing with abuse….so if you are reading this and you think there is no where to turn…yes there is, just contact even your local departments, such as police or even support groups, there is always a place to turn and battered women's shelters. Remember you do not have to stay in that, you can get a divorce and you can be safe. For people going through a divorce, wither just dealing with things or what not, I have always said it is good to have therapist, somebody other then even a friend to talk to, that can help us see more clearly going through a divorce.
If you do have a good friend make sure they are there, and a good friend will be if you are going through a divorce or any tough time. One of the things that people forget is that they need to read those divorce papers, most people skim over them and can miss an entire story in their divorce papers, so read them and for that friend that is there for you, make sure they read your divorce papers, they may catch something you missed, and believe me the last thing you want to do is go back to divorce court, divorce cases can be horrible to reopen!
And here!!! If you need to talk about something in your divorce, ask a question about your area, or just scream about how your day went….you are never alone!