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Yes the weekend might be here, but that does not mean, I do not check in to see if there are any divorce and child support questions.  Sometimes I do sit and think about your divorce questions and child support before I answer them.  I believe even having some one else's opinion and for them to find you the best information possible on your divorce and child support is important.

Everyone as I ended my divorce blog yesterday, everyone needs a little help in life.  I wish some people would not be afraid to get things off their chest or talk about their divorce and child support issues.  Getting opinions and information for your divorce is important.

Mae sure you ask away.  So I suppose some basic things to leave the weekend with is.

Make sure and never be afraid to ask questions on divorce and child support, even if its something to do with a word, term or even phrase used in the divorce papers, sometimes letting the simplest thing go, that you think is no big deal, can be a huge one. I have even done a couple blogs on divorce and other legal terms.

If your using this time in your divorce to go over your divorce papers, make sure you read everything and again ask questions.  Knowing whats in there is IMPORTANT.

If your using this time to start a divorce process, make sure your researching several divorce lawyers, getting a list of what you and your spouse have acquired over the years, do not be left in the dark and not get your fair share!  Look at everything, even taxes, alimony..etc..

I hope everyone has a great weekend, and I will be checking in!

Posted: Feb 27 2009, 07:47 AM by Divorce | with 1 comment(s) |
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sweetliss99 said:

i have a question regarding support. i have had a support case in pa for 7 years, my ex has rarely ever has paid support and he only is suppost to pay $60 a week for 2 children. now he is trying to take me back to have it lowered or terminated because he has been unemployeed for over a year and has 5 other children to support and a wife (not like thats my problem). he also wants my husbands income to be taken into account since he cannot pay. i only work about 4 hours a week, and i am a full time student. so after talking to my laywer we are trying to send my ex papers to sign off rights and have my husband adopt them. but here is the thing we don't have his address, and domestics will not release it to my laywer, so we have to go to the domestic relation's meeting. i went online reading all the rules and regulations about child support and well it really confussed me. and now i am mad. can he really get his support ordered lowered because i have remarried? and is it really my problem that he hasn't gone out and found another job? cause if he is not going to sign off rights of my children, then i think he should have to pay more a week, since we have not been back to re-evaluate since 2003, and i worked full time then. and its not my husbands responsibility to provide for my children unless he is going to sign off rights and let my husband adopt them right? thats how i thought i understood the law, untill i started reading... something about if the oblgee is in poverty no support order may be nessessary. (what!!!! i'm sorry go get a job! my husband goes to work everyday to support his kid and 2 that are not, why can't my ex be made to go get a job!) why would they allow him to get away with producing all theses children he can't support.. then saying aww i'm sorry your not working let me just not let you pay for your children! what if my husband did support my children, how would my kids eat? sorry if i sound very upset, i just don't think its fair that he can get off that easy.

thanks

melissa

# April 21, 2009 7:24 PM