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Moving, Divorce, and Children.

This happens a lot these days, spouses moving and then the fight begins in the divorce.  I do try to suggest to spouses moving out of state or even county before you enter into divorce or file, is just not a good move.  If your moving just to spite the other, remember and I try to tell people, think of your children in this process, should a child be punished just because to parents want a divorce?  Also ask yourself this. 

Moving in a divorce can also be difficult with children, remember if the nature of the move is just for spite you may have to come back, and remember this can even  make  your child support lower, because spouses will have to split the cost of visitation from parent to  parent in the divorce papers.

Now if a spouse is moving for a job or even to be close to family to help out, even better themselves with a good job this is different, but again I suggest this waits till after the divorce and child support and custody are written in the divorce papers.  I try to remind people to get along, and also therapy and counseling for the children in the divorce.  So many people make such hasty moves, and it only hurts instead of making things better.  I try to tell spouses that are getting a divorce, even if you do not like one another think of the children in these cases.  You can still get along, after all you want to raise beautiful happy children.

I think it is nice if spouses do need to move in the divorce, and they work together that's great, like job or to have family help in this time.

Posted: Nov 06 2008, 06:07 AM by Divorce | with no comments
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